The passengers boarded the plane in the usual manner. Their flight number was announced at the departure gate, their destination confirmed, and they were told that they were ready to board and to proceed towards the aircraft (frequent flyers to board via L1 at their leisure.) However, for the flight attendants waiting in the 777-200, it was to be no ordinary boarding and no ordinary flight. It was a flight to the Maldives and the honeymooners would soon turn the aircraft into a tunnel of love, of which there would be no light at the end.
This is not to say that honeymooners are distinctly a difficult demographic of passengers.
On the contrary.
They are organised, excited, and so bursting with love and affection towards their newly pronounced partner in life that their sweetness and warmth spills onto everything they see, hear, smell, and touch that it makes you sick.
A young Australian guy comes to me and says,
‘My wife and I are on our honeymoon.’
Giggle giggle because he isn’t used to calling Rachel wife.
Shy, giddy glance at Rachel.
Rachel stifles a giggle.
I try to hold down my breakfast.
‘Would it be possible to find some seats where there’s just a little more legroom?’
I would have loved to reply with ‘Why, there are so many of you honeymooners onboard today! Do you all have the same travel agent? Or did you all have the same wedding date? I know that cult with mass weddings and the Kool-Aid always likes to send their newlyweds to the Maldives. They heard the islands were sinking.’
I begrudgingly pushed that thought aside, and in true customer service fashion, of which the Airline would have been proud, I put on my best smile, wiped away my cynicism momentarily and said,
‘Certainly sir, as soon as everyone has boarded the plane I will do my best to make you and your ahem wife as comfortable as possible’ and walked to the aft galley to gag.
The five of us in uniform in the aft galley stood and watched the procession of couples enter the aircraft. They found their seats, adoringly helped each other with their hand luggage, saying ‘Oh sweetie, you take the window seat.’ ‘Oh no, you take the window seat’ (I’ll throw you out the window soon if you don’t stop, I think) and watch as new wifey puts a pillow under tired hubby’s head as he leans on the arm rest. It has been a long journey to their honeymoon paradise.
‘Our passengers are coming in pairs,’ I observed in true Filipina fashion. ‘Just like shoes.’
We got hopeful when we saw a single man filing down the left-hand side of the aircraft looking for his seat. Ah hah, we thought. Finally, someone we can share our cynicism and hate towards the lovey dovey entourage of newlyweds. However, we were disappointed when single woman on the right-hand side of the aircraft was his pair. He was left. She was right.
Now, do not get me wrong, not all flight attendants are single, bitter and twisted about relationships. Coincidentally however, the scheduling gods of the Airline managed to roll the dice pretty damn amusingly and teamed up a whole compliment of hostesses of the aforementioned flight attendant stereotype on the flight to Maldives.
‘I got a condom in a birthday card for my birthday.’
‘I was with him for 3 ½ years and he still didn’t want to get married.’
‘My male best friend just announced his undying love for me and doesn’t want me to see other people.’
‘I haven’t had sex in 3 ½ years since I divorced my husband.’
‘My more-than-friend ‘friend’ wants us to stay ‘just friends’.’
I was surprised that the aircraft didn’t dip too badly on take off with the weight of our emotional baggage at the back.
During the service, there was a glimmer of hope that it would not be all rainbows and butterflies during their idyllic stay in the Maldives. While offering drinks from the bar cart, 16D asks me, in an acutely audible voice,
‘Do you have any sparkling wine? We’re on our honeymoon’ he proudly announces.
My eyes glaze over as 16D beams proudly at 16E, his tender smile making me wish for a rapid decompression so that he and wifey can get sucked out of the aircraft at lightning speed.
They weren’t wearing their seatbelts.
‘Oh, certainly sir.’
Big smile.
‘The sauvignon blanc from New Zealand and the Bordeaux are both complimentary.’
Dramatic pause.
‘There is, however, a small charge on the Moet & Chandon.’
Continue.
‘$US8 a glass for the Moet. Shall I chill them for you?’
Let the information sink in.
‘I...uhhhh…we’ll have two glasses of red thanks.’
Smile.
Serve.
Walk away.
We were somewhat looking forward to the return trip back from Maldives to the Desert. We were interested to see how 2 weeks on a tropical island with no one else but their beloved would do to our spring-chicken couples. The honeymoon now is, quite literally, well and truly over.
Our passengers again, filed onto the plane in pairs. However, there were a few subtle differences to the homebound honeymooners.
Firstly, they were several shades more red and pink than our outbound couples (pasty white Europeans seem to be the Maldives’ main tourist market.)
Secondly, there was a lot less idle cooing of ‘Baby’ this and ‘Sweetie’ that (but that could have been because of the 10pm departure time, but I was still going to take that as the first signs of trouble in paradise.)
Thirdly, pre-wedding manicures and facials had well and truly worn off by now and the not-so-fresh-brides were starting to look like normal women travelling again.
However, this is as far as my negativity went. As much as I strained to find cracks in the foundation of their future lives, I could not see any. Am I a closet optimist? Possibly. But what was clearly evident was that public display of affection was even more rampant on this sector than with the outbound passengers. I was beginning to think that more and more people are waiting for marriage before they had sex, and once the flood gates were unleashed, there was no containing their sexual prowess. Despite being contained in their hotel rooms for most of their stay (November not typically the best time of the year in the Maldives because it is generally very windy – but you can’t really argue with cult leaders), the sexual ferocity of our post-honeymooners had not abated in the slightest.
25J and 25K sat directly in front of my jumpseat for take of and landing could not keep their hands, mouths and tongues off each other. First class passengers 1J and 1K put on such a show when the cabin lights were turned down that the flight attendants at the front made a note to call all the crew to come and witness wifey sitting on top of hubby, only a cashmere Airline blanket shielding their love underneath.
Though my bitterness towards these lovey-dovey newlyweds is strong and unfaltering, I too, one day, hope to be part of this sickening group of people. Travelling to some idyllic island resort where new-hubby and I will look into each other’s eyes and see the rest of our lives. The bitterness and gag-reflex of the flight attendants will be unbeknownst to us as we float through the tunnel of young love. Harps will play. The sun will shine. Life will be beautiful.
I do wish them all the best for their travels through life together. There will be moments of turbulence, both light and severe. There will be moments of unexpected delays and diversions en route. There will be offers of upgrades or downgrades. There will be surprises of early arrivals and news of lost baggage. But at the end of it all, they still have each other. Their other half. Their mate. Their pair.
But sometimes, as we see onboard all too often, the cynicism and sarcasm of life do wear down these life-long commitments.
‘Where did you put the passports, DA-vid?’
‘They’re in the front pocket, MARI-a!’
‘Oh for God’s sakes Brian, where is Matthew now?’
‘I thought he was with you!’
‘With me?!’
I hope they remember that couples are pairs. They should walk together, side by side, one foot followed by the other. They should take time to pause and tie up the laces when they come undone. They should know that a little polish or a new sole is sometimes all it takes to put the spring back in their step. But unlike shoes, one should not always be right. Because if that happens, not being right is sometimes all a person is left with.
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